I'm not exactly sure what you're talking about. But I am sure that that for either case, you can explain...
Loneliness as in depression. I Don't mean idiots in a nasty sense, just those that don't understand. Those that seem cheerful, that I don't get.
By the way I get your sense of humour and yes I'm a complete idiot that takes the whole world on his shoulders.
Why would you CHOOSE to be unhappy and depressed? Happiness is a CHOICE, my friend. You can be miserable or you can enjoy life. I agree with jhawk. Being unhappy is a sign of self-centeredness and narcissism because one feels like a victim and is usually absorbed in nothing but their own negative thoughts. Now as far as loneliness goes, we all feel that from time to time. My wife is a long way away at a conference in North Carolina right now. She left last Saturday, and won't be home until this Sunday. It's only Wednesday and I already miss her a lot. A house away in the hills is lonely when it's only you, the dog, and the parrot for a week. The good news is while she's gone I can watch Fearnet ( horror movie channel ) whenever I want.