Why do you say that your wedding is a tremendous waste? yeah it's a nice idea to have an eco wedding but I think it's expensive still or might be more expensive I guess.
I say it's a waste because all the time, money, and resources that went into it could have been better spent on something else, namely some sort of investment. If you honestly think vows expressed 20 years ago and all the pomp and circumstance that came with it is what keeps us together today, you're sadly mistaken. We could have simply moved in together and the only difference would be some missing footage and pictures. I really felt the same way then, but it wasn't my money being spent.